IMPERFECT!

This picture imperfect as it is with the rumpled skirt and my unshaved armpits (covers face) reminds me of life and how much we hold ourselves back , how much we judge ourselves harshly , upholding ourselves to such standards that we will rather not try at all. We come up with ideas in our head and straight away we come up with counter ideas, with things that we convince ourselves have to be in place before we can get to work on our ideas, before we can share them with the world. I can’t tell you guys how many times I have been guilty of this, I didn’t realize it was a thing even until a fellow youtuber discussed this on one of her vlogs, she called  it “aesthetics”, she talked about how the aesthetics of things could stop us from doing, how we get so wrapped up in the aesthetics we delay or never deliver the plan. Don’t get me wrong guys, I am equally here for the aesthetics, what I am trying to say however is this, do not let the need for the perfect aesthetics stop you from going on with your plans, start first and then take it from there, build on the aesthetics as you go on. Continue reading IMPERFECT!

Bump Style 16 – Gingham Dress

 Ever wondered how to wear the gingham trend without looking like a school girl? Thats a real dilemma for me too. Hello guys, so as promised,there is going to be a double style post this week. The fashion edit didn’t make it up yesterday, I am really sorry about that, I promise it will come up latest tomorrow. I got this gingham dress from Primark last week. I am not shopping pricey things for this pregnancy because I may not wear them again after the baby comes. I bought this dress, changed my mind about it ( though Gingham is a quite a huge trend this summer, wasnt quite feeling how short this one was )  and took it back but they refused to accept it because I mistakenly left some makeup stains on them drats!  I figured I have to find a way to make it work for me, styled it with shorts underneath, you could also pop tights underneath, what do you guys think though? Continue reading Bump Style 16 – Gingham Dress